This year is all about being productive in our own ways. Whatever we do, we should come up with results. That’s when we can say we did something productive. You already went through what things we can do.
In this blog post, I’ll share 3 things that breaks our productive.
“Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.”
– Dale Carnegie
You’re one of a gem – don’t ever forget that. Comparing yourself with someone will just boost your insecurities and nothing else.
It’s always better to be the best version of yourself. That’s so much easy and way more better than comparing yourself and changing too. Change is good but not when you try to copy somebody.
If you compare yourself to someone you will always feel the urge to be something different that you’re not. Unfortunately after a point you’ll no more be yourself and that’s when everything around will change. You will notice that you cannot do things as easily as the other person does because what’s easy for them might be tough for you and vise versa. You will think that you aren’t capable enough. But in this race, you actually forget that sky is the limit.
Sooner or later you’ll realize that you don’t like this version of you. You start loosing your real self.
“Why compare yourself to others? No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.”
Always stay away from negative people. Why? Because they have problem to every solution.
These are generally the ones who would even criticize about a real diamond and question it. Whatever they get their hands on, they’ll find something or the other ways to prove it isn’t good for them.
Same happens at work place whatever environment they are in, they won’t survive. And not only they’ll leave but also critcise about how being there was so difficult for them.
It is always better to accept things that come to your way wholeheartedly. Unless and until you loose something, you’ll not love everything around you.
“Criticism is something we can avoid easily by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.”
One thing we all must do is to stop complaining. We should always be grateful for whatever we have or have had in our life. Simply complaining about things will not make any difference or bring you joy. But you’ll soon turn into a person who complains about anything and everything.
One must give honest reviews for sure but not complain. Circumstances will never change if you just focus on bringing out the bad in people/things-but will make you a kind of person that nobody might not like. It is always better to accept things and work towards your goals.
“Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining – it bores everybody else, does you no good, and doesn’t solve any problems.”
– Zig Ziglar
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